Thursday, July 23, 2009
What Shakespear din tell u abt LOVE!
you know how as a little gurl you read all these wonderful stories on love.. those beautiful worded Mills & Boons that delude .. yes delude your mind into believing there actually exist love and more atrociously with agressive conviction.. a "Prince Charming".. now technically I wouldn't necessarly fall for that.. but when you start to watch the brilliance of the movies showcase the same lies.. well.. ur young, innocent, naive mind start to believe it..and 25 years.. 11 months and 24 days later , reality hits you rite between the eyes.. not so gently, I might add.. and suddenly you find youself head first into a bick wall of heart ache and heart break.. in your now partially grown up state of adulthood you finally conclude - LOVE STINKS!! ... Love... this word once substituted with depth.. magical a feeling.. thrilling.. describing the wings on our back .. used so passionately by Shakespear .. Speancer.. Donne .. is nothing but an empty set of dried tears on ur pillow .. the hollowness in ur heart .. and well .. more importantly... the dent in your bank account! .. I wish I could pass on this wisdom to all that follow suit .. save the world from the folly of our faint hearts that succumb to the lies of well planned block buster Hollywood charm or the imaginations of gifted writers .. but I am a firm believer of 'each to his own path' .. for them that dare .. for the bravery of fools.. I neither salute u .. nor condem u .. I do however wait your presence.. on the side of them ... that have loved ... and lost.. !!!
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How True ,Love is to be experienced by each one and we will all have our own defination of what True Love really is........Just fall in love and learn what reality really is..
ReplyDeleteWell, neither am I an expert on love, nor have I read any Mills & Boons novels, so I wouldn't be able to vote for or against their definition of love... Consider this as an opinion from an "innocent", naive fool to another innocent, naive mind... But to tell you the truth, no one really knows the definition of love... There's however, a difference between "the feeling of love" and actual love... The former is the feeling when you're newly into a relationship, where you overlook a person's flaws as you're hormones have completely taken over your rational, practical side... Life's a fairytale that cannot go wrong... Then reality sets in and the 'feeling of love" vanishes... That is when most relationships end... But that is also when true "love" sets in, if the individuals in a relationship have the courage to take the "road less travelled". Sadly, most don't... Love is the most boring part of the journey together that the modern (wo)man seems oblivious to...
ReplyDeleteAnd, to add to the complications, the fact that both the sexes do not understand each other... :-)
Love, and 'being in a relationship' are tricky business, and require untiring effort... It's an ongoing process...
Sheff!